10 Ways to Seduce A Woman
By: Patricia Fason
I have written this article by request but want to begin by saying that I in no way encourage men to treat women like objects. Men, this is a guide to help you win over a woman that you have a genuine interest in. If you are just looking for a one night stand then this article probably won’t help you much. Lesson one, satisfaction comes with a sincere relationship and learning each others likes and dislikes. That being said, I hope you find something useful here that will help you give the woman of your dreams a reason to look your way.
Be sincere. Compliment her on something you truly admire. Hollow compliments can often be sensed. A compliment that she knows you mean will have much more impact. This doesn’t mean you can throw out a compliment and then get naked, but it is a good first step. The compliment should NOT be ‘you have great knockers.’ Go for the eyes, hair, intelligence, sense of humor, something along those lines. On the other hand, too many compliments can come off sounding insincere. One or two sincere compliments are best.
Listen to her. She will give you clues about what she likes. At some later time, you can show that you remember what she has said and it makes a difference to you. This will earn you big points.
Be real. Don’t exaggerate to make yourself sound better. Don’t tell her lies just because you think it will help. These things have a way of turning around and biting you.
Don’t offer advice unless asked. It could come off sounding like you are telling her what to do. Just listen and be supportive.
Do not talk about sex unless she brings it up. This one is pretty self explanatory.
Don’t act desperate. Just let things flow naturally. Desperation is an unappealing quality in either sex. Playing a little hard to get can actually be appealing.
Avoid talking about yourself too much. Let her talk and if she wants to know, she will ask. An ongoing conversation about how big your muscles are or how fast your car is will not score many points. Bragging about how well endowed you are is a big no-no too. On the other hand, silence doesn’t work either. Look around and find something to talk about. Preferably about her.
Avoid letting your eyes wonder to other women when you are with her. Talking about other women or your ex are both no-no’s too. If you are out with her, let her know you like being with her by respecting her feelings and keeping your eyes and mind on her.
Treat her with respect. Don’t call her chick, broad, dude or any other name unless you have been together for a while and you come up with pet names for each other. Respect is crucial and a good woman will not be interested in sex with you until she knows you respect her. If a one night stand is what you have in mind, then don’t lead her into believing you want a relationship with her. Playing with her feelings is cruel and something no one should do to anyone.
Don’t make her feel like because you have spent money on her, she should sleep with you. Making her feel this way will generally have the opposite affect. All you have bought is her time and the opportunity to prove to her that you are worth a second look. The rest is up to you.
©2005 Patricia Fason
Patricia Fason is a writer and poet whose main focus is relationships. To read more of her work, visit Sites O Web Romances You. There you will find relationship articles, poetry, romantic gifts and other tools to keep romance alive in your relationship.