Alternatives To Asking For A Woman’s Phone Number At A Club That Allow You To Attract Women
By: Teddy Shabba
In general any man can get a woman’s phone number within 5 minutes of talking to her. Most of the time nothing becomes f it because 5 minutes or even 30 minutes of talking to a woman doesn’t create enough attraction for her to actually want to talk to you again.
(*Its important to note that I am talking about when you ask for her phone number, IF she volunteers her phone number then odds are you created enough attraction.)
When you ask for her phone number this early on she will give you her phone number even if she only likes you a little bit.
When you call her you are going to be going up against everything that she likes as much or more than you. If she only likes you a little bit that means she might not even pick up the phone because she enjoys watching TV just as much if not more than you.
Yet, what if there was a way that you could increase her attraction level and the likelihood that she would give you her phone number without you asking thereby increasing your odds of actually talking to her again?
Actually there are two ways to do this.
The first thing you can do is attempt to change locations with her right then and there. If she is into you she will find a way to go with you or offer up her phone number, either way you know the odds are good when you call she will pick up.
(*If you change venues with her it is now okay to ask for her phone number because you know her attraction level is high and hopefully you raised it some more at the second location.)
The second thing you can do is invite her to something that you will be doing the next day. For example I will tell a girl that she should check out the local casino on Sunday nights because I like to hang out and play keno while listening to the live bands play. In order for this one to work you have to really be doing this thing tomorrow or at least have it be independent of her showing up and you are going to invite every chick that you normally would only ask for her phone number.
The women that have a high amount of interest in you will give you their phone numbers and some might even show up the next day (extremely high interest).
As for the ones with low interest they will politely decline and now instead of having them off your list forever after you call them with no answer they are still available to try and create a stronger attraction with the next time you meet.
When it comes to getting phone numbers you can choose to get 10 phone numbers from women with whom you haven’t qualified and attempt to recreate the attraction over the phone if they pick up or you can get 6 qualified leads from women you know have a high interest level and the possibility of meeting 12 women on Sunday night.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and more. If you would like more information on how to attract, seduce and meet women sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men today.