Approaching Women: Secrets Of The Master Pick-Up Artists
By: Kenneth Oboh
Approaching women can often be a ‘nerve wracking’ experience
for a lot of guys and I know only too well what that feels
like. You tend to put yourself under a lot of pressure to
come across in an impressive way and then you worry about
rejection if it all goes wrong.
So here is my advice: is to approach women in a situation
where you are NOT even trying to pick them up or get a phone
number or get them to respond to you in any way at all that
will put you under the pressure of making your attempt
either a ‘failure’ or ’success.’
What I’m saying here is do not approach women expecting to
prove anything to yourself or to ‘get’ anything from them or
try any kind of pick up line or material. And you can use
absolutely any kind of women to do this ‘practice’ exercise,
preferably the ones that you can interact with on a normal
social level like a sales assistant in a store or a coffee
shop attendant or a girl bartender serving drinks in a pub
or a bar.
The aim here is simply to engage them in a very brief
conversation which involves a little bit more than just the
act of ordering something. For example with the shop
assistant it could be that you ask her advice on what
present to get your sister on her birthday. With the pub
staff it could be to ask her advice on a good and
interesting cocktail or something. I’m sure you get the
drift.
Do not put yourself under any pressure whatsoever to prolong
the interaction. That means if you get a short answer from
her to a question you asked her, just leave it at that. If
on the other hand, she takes the bait and starts smiling
too, and responding in a friendly way then take that as your
cue to talk a bit more in response.
This little ‘no pressure’ exercise will give you the kind of
very valuable feedback that you can expect from women in
other “more social” situations like bars, nightclubs, coffee
shops, the bookstore, wherever you later decide to meet
women you want to date. The topic of conversation does not
matter, what matters is this: your conversation must follow
the formula which I call “playful arrogance.” This formula
works so well because women love to be playfully teased.
Note the important words here : PLAYFULLY TEASED. I suggest
that from this second, you burn these two words forever into
your brain when dealing with women.
So for example, say you have started a conversation with the
female bartender in a pub or bar and maybe you just asked
her opinion of the best cocktail. And she mentions one, you could then follow up with a playful but arrogant smirk and
say something like “is that the best you can do? I thought
you looked like a woman of fine taste, ohhhh, I’m so
disappointed, now I have to find a second beautiful female
expert to advice me on my drinks.” Do you get the picture
and the scientific structure behind that kind of statement?
Bear in mind that nowhere in this statement have you
“insulted” her. If you “overdo” the teasing and actually end
up insulting the woman, needless to say that would not
result in success. But with a bit of experimentation, you
should get better at striking the right “playful balance”
that women will find very attractive.
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