Atlanta Singles Dating: How to Date to Find the Love of Your Life
By: Jeff Herring
Q: Dating is starting to stink for me! I heard you speak on relationships and have a question for you. How do you go about finding someone? I’m sick of the bar scene, and don’t want to fool with the online dating services. You got any ideas for me?
A: Great question, and I believe I can offer you some tips and tools for
finding the love of your life.
Dating in today’s world
You will need to do a little bit of homework first, but it will not be graded! One of the best ways to find what you are looking for is to know what you are looking for.
You do this by identifying your Requirements, Needs and Wants.
A Requirement is something that you must have in a relationship. If you do not have it with someone, a requirement is a deal breaker. An example would be wanting to have children. It’s an issue where you cannot compromise, because you cannot have half a child.
A Need is close to a Requirement, but is negotiable as to when, where and how the need is met. A Need is still important because every time a need is not met, it creates an issue that must be worked out. For example, wanting to spend some time by yourself would be a need.
A Want is the icing on the cake. A need is nice to have, but is not necessary for the relationship to work.
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