Atlanta Singles Dating: Rule Five for Conscious Dating - Be Commit-able
By: Jeff Herring
Dating regularly does not mean that you are commit-able. Dating regularly can just mean that you are dating regularly.
Some people date recreationally, some people date looking for a life partner, etc.
Are you commit-able?
If you are dating looking for a life partner, then you need to be commit-able. What does commit-able mean exactly?
It does not mean that you need to be committed to a mental institution, even though that is almost what it sounds like.
What being commit-able does mean is that you are ready and available for commitment. This means emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually ready.
If you are dating to seek your life partner and are not ready and available for commitment, two things are going to happen:
1. You are going to get confused.
2. And so is the person you are dating.
Getting clear
When what you say you want does not line up with what is really going on inside, you cannot help but send mixed messages. So one of the necessary tasks to be ready for commitment is to bring your heart into alignment with your words.
You need to get clear within yourself on what you really want. If you are still healing from a past relationship and just want to date around recreationally, that is perfectly acceptable, just be clear about it.
If you are ready for a commitment, commit-able, then that is great too.
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