How to Get Your Co-worker on a Date?
By: Ranko Magami
She knows you for a long time, she considers you a nice friend,
but if you ask her out, you feel she would die laughing and would never date a guy like you. Do you feel this way?
Have no fear! If you manage to get rid of your internal sabotaging blockers, you will fly above your competition and she will be in your arms!
The dilemma of getting their coworker on a date has haunted almost all men that are lucky enough to work in a place where you can find cute females. If you don’t find yourself in a place like that, at the moment, don’t get desperate, read on: maybe your next job will offer you a chance you must not miss and you can apply this advice in any scenario.
So let’s assume the classical situation: she already thinks you are a geek, or even worse, she discusses her love life with you and uses you as a shoulder to cry on.
What will you do?
At Fidentia that is what we do, we teach men how to win over women by destroying their own excuses in their minds.
I am sure that in normal circumstances when you hang out with your best buddy you can talk and be a fun person. But how come then when you see a beautiful new secretary walking around in high heels with a bunch of papers, your throat stiffens so much that it is even a victory if you can force yourself to say a lame: “Hi….I see you have a lot to do.”
Is that a fun sentence?
Is she expecting her prince to talk about work, parents or paying
the rent?
Not really.
Men have trouble taking to women because from early age they are
conditioned to be bold and confident only if they have something to offer: if they are rich or famous.
At Fidentia, we give you the confidence to get women, but if after handling your fears of women, you still want to get rich or famous you can do that also….
So your first goal is to reduce your fear of talking to the women
you feel attracted to in front of strangers.
How will you do that?
Before actually approaching your desired girl you spend your nights fantasizing about, you will practice on other women, which
preferably do not know her.
To begin, you can do one simple exercise that has helped many men overcome a lot of their fears.
When walking around your town and going somewhere you will say:
Hi to attractive women you meet. At this stage just walk away, don’t run in panic.
Pretend that you know them, but that you are too busy to stand
there and talk with them. Smile when you say hi and look them in
the eyes.
I estimate that a lot of excuses will hit you in your head.
The excuse generator in your head will tell you that everybody is
watching you, but believe me, it is one of the most common
excuses, so fight it and do the mission.
When you do it several times, I bet you already feel more powerful. I bet you feel more like a man and not a wussy anymore.
Good.
Do it a dozen times, if you have any questions email us.
Did you notice that sometimes a girl will smile back and offer a
sweet “Hiiii.
What would you do if I told you that girl really likes you and you
had a chance of a date if you stayed there with her?
Taking an unknown women on a date is far too much for you at this
stage, so let’s get back to work, but this time you have your new
confidence, your new ally that nobody else has.
You will find the women you lust for and spend nights fantasizing
about. Now you will choose the shortest and most direct way to get to her, and you will approach her even though this time everyone may still be looking at you.
Can you feel your new power?!!
Can you feel the horrified looks of all your male competitors?
Great, it was worth it just cause of that.
When you call a woman from work out on a date, don’t excuse yourself and wait for the moment when nobody is around and jump her and blurt something out.
Losers do that all the time. She has seen it a million times.
If you are still having some blockers read this a few times:
Are you afraid people will know that you call a woman for a drink!
Are you afraid people will know that you call a woman for a drink!
Are you afraid people will know that you call a woman for a drink!
Great, don’t worry if she has already formed her opinion about you. When she sees that you suddenly behave like a man that doesn’t have unnecessary fears in his mind making him sweat and tremble, she will like you much, much more because she is genetically predetermined to find a guy without phobias in his head.
Also a usual blocker guys will use to shoot themselves in leg is
talk to their buddies about her, and talk and talk, and do nothing. Male friends have a weird custom to stop and demoralize you all the time, male friends must make you work, go to the gym to be like Schwarzenegger or drive a Ferrari.
They must not let you get a beautiful women if you are an average
man.
Ranko Magami
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http://www.attractanddate.com
Ranko Magami works with a company known as Attract and Date. Attract amd Date teaches dating confidence. Subscribe to their free newletter to learn more available on the website and get a free MP3.