How to Plan a Perfect Christening
By: Michelle Payne Gale
A Christening is a very special occasion, and is often considered a young child’s first big day. So most Parents will want to plan an occasion that is memorable and enjoyable for everyone. Here are just a few tips for planning the perfect Christening.
Set the Date
Make a list of preferred dates, and then check with the church or venue to ensure that they can accommodate those dates, as well as your requirements for the ceremony. Then check with your guests to find out their availability on those dates - particularly the guests who will be taking part in the ceremony (i.e.: Godparents). Try not to get things fully underway before checking that your planned date is suitable for everyone.
Meet the Vicar
If you are having the ceremony in Church, arrange to meet with the vicar. They will be able to tell you about their church and community, take you for a look around, and tell you how they normally conduct their ceremonies. This should help you to feel comfortable with the vicar and the church, and also help you to confirm whether the type of ceremony suits you. Meeting with the vicar is also a courtesy that they’ll appreciate.
Consider Making a Donation
Churches do not charge fees for Christenings, but do consider making a donation. Most Churches depend on financial gifts and collections from the community and those who use the church, so anything you can offer will be appreciated. After all, they will be welcoming your child into their community.
Photography and Filming
Always check your chosen church’s rules on photography and filming. Some churches decline photography and filming during the ceremony, but are happy for photographs outside after the ceremony. Some churches have their own list of preferred photographers and videographers, so do ask them. You can also consider a professional photographer for portraits outside the church (weather permitting!), or even a studio sitting, booked for a day after the Christening. It’s another reason to get dressed up!
God Parents
Make sure that your chosen Godparents are clear on their responsibilities, not just for the Christening day, but in their roles as your child’s Godparent. It is important that they know what will be required of them in the ceremony so that you will all feel comfortable. It is also a good way of finding out whether your chosen Godparents are likely to change their mind at the last minute!
Invite
You may wish to send out formal invitations to your Christening guests. If you plan to buy these in the shops, make sure that you’ll be able to find the design you want in adequate numbers. If you are planning to order handmade or personalised invitations for the event, be sure to order them in plenty of time to allow for proofs, last-minute changes and order delivery.
Be Practical
Of course, you’ll want your VIP to look fabulous on the day. Be sure to pick outfits that are both stylish and practical for your baby (view a gorgeous collection at www.beascreations.net), so they’ll look elegant while feeling contented and comfortable on their big day.
Keep your VIP happy
A Christening is much easier and more enjoyable when the guest of honour is content and able to enjoy the ceremony with your family and friends. Therefore, make sure you do all you can to keep your baby happy and comfortable in the lead up to the ceremony (nappy changes, times of feedings etc). Also, try to keep your baby in familiar arms for the main part of the ceremony, so that they will not become agitated or unsettled.
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These are just the main tips for organising a perfect Christening, and should ensure that a wonderful day is enjoyed by all.
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