Only You Can Save Your Marriage
By: Vanshika Anand
Beginning four to six months of marriage go very well. Both life partners enjoy physical as well as emotional intimacy. They are conscious about the physical and emotional needs of each other as a result they are able to satisfy each other to a great extent. They pay extra attention to each other intentionally as both of them want to impress each other. They try to highlight their plus points. But with the passage of time things start changing.
Now they find themselves unable to continue this pattern of living. As they live in this materialistic world they have to start thinking and working hard for fulfilling their materialistic needs. They also have to give respectable place to other relations too and give them appropriate time. Because of it they are unable to take care of each other. It causes frustration and when it increases it converts into anger. In anger both life partners start accusing each other for not providing sufficient time. They hold each other responsible for spoiling their life.
Here both of them need to understand that neither of them is at fault. Even if they want they can neither stop earning nor boycotting other relations, as both are necessary for living in this world. So the best and wise way is to accept this truth and try to adjust with each other.
1. Do spare only fifteen minutes for each other. In this period, just talk about each other only.
2. Learn to express your love in words. Let your partner know that you love him or her.
3. Try to have interest in the work in which your partner has interest. It will help both of you to have extra time to spend with each other.
4. Even if you have to say no to your partner be very polite.
5. When your partner is tensed sooth his/her nerves by showing your love, affection and care. It will bring you close to each other.
6. Appreciate each other for being careful towards physical and emotion needs.
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