Preparing For The Tears At Your Wedding
By: Lesley-Ann Graham
It is quite normal for there to be tears at the wedding. It is a moving experience that can touch even the most jaded hearts. The more magical the wedding, the faster the hankies come out.
Actually, everyone cries at weddings. There have been times where the bride sobs her way to the altar. The groom may be so awed by the sight of his intended that he’ll shed a few tears too.
Expect that the bride’s parents will shed some tears as they watch their beloved daughter marry her chosen mate. They are seeing the culmination of years of care blossom into the radiant bride standing at the altar. Some may feel a great reluctance to let go of their child, but know that they cannot hold her back. If you can’t imagine it, watch the movie “Father of the Bride” starring Steve Martin.
Of course, there may also be some sad tears from the crowd. Weddings for the single people can be a goal and watching someone else at the altar makes them misty eyed with longing. The guests, the ones who are married, may be remembering their own nuptials and are reliving their special moment as they watch the happy couple say their vows.
If you think you are likely to have lots of waterworks… I mean guests, crying at the wedding, why not have some tissue prepared in packages matching your theme. That would be a thoughtful gift that your guests will appreciate and remember. Just don’t forget to have some ready for you and your fiance/e, just in case you get overcome by your happiness as well.
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