Starting A New Relationship - Are You Ready For Love?
By: Michael Douglas
So you think you’re ready for real love? Or maybe you have doubts that romance is the route for you? Here is a quiz that helps you decide which camp you belong to…
1. THERE’S A HOTTIE AT THE CROWDED CAFE. HE GLANCES YOUR WAY. YOU:
Questions:
a. Ignore him. You just know he’ll approach you anyway so you’re not worried.
b. Lick your lips, flip your hair, adjust your blouse and mouth, “I’m your hot chocolate”.
c. Catch his eye, smile and mouth, “Save you a seat?”
Answers:
a. Confidence is sexy, but too much is a turn-off.
b. You’re accessible, but your signals are clearly sexual.
c. Eye contact and a smile are clear signals you’re open to new people and things.
2. YOU ARE TALKING TO A PROSPECTIVE DATE AT A CLUB. YOU:
Questions:
a. Get easily distracted by all the cute guys walking by?
b. Sit there with your arms folded, avoiding eye contact?
c. Face him and lean forward, looking and nodding at him as he speaks to you?
Answers:
a. You’re signaling disinterest. In turn, he probably won’t be interested in you.
b. Averting a direct gaze is perceived as untrustworthy.
c. This open stance shows you’re accessible.
3. YOU ARE CONSISTENTLY ATTRACTED TO THE WRONG GUY. DO YOU:
Questions:
a. Take a look at the psychology behind your dating decisions?
b. Wonder where all the nice guys have gone and decide to go there once you figure it out?
c. Decide all dudes are dunces and head for the spa?
Answers:
a. Enjoy your hour in the mud bath, but for lasting love, change.
b. You know you have to stay in the game, but you’re having trouble finding the venue.
c. You’re taking responsibility for your actions.
4. YOUR LAST SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP ENDED LONG BACK. YOU:
Questions:
a. Gaze at the shrine you erected in the corner of your bedroom
b. Long to reconcile..
c. Reflect fondly on the good times and realise you can be in a new relationship.
Answers:
a. Get over it. Harboring strong negative feelings gives you a bad vibe.
b. Be sure you’re not holding onto the old relationship before finding a new one.
c. You’ve got a healthy perspective on the past and are ready to embrace the future.
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Score: Choice a is worth 0 points; b is 5 points; c is 10 points.
The higher your score, the more prepared you are to embark on a new relationship
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