Tell Her What You Want After You Have Created Attraction Inside Her
By: Teddy Shabba
When a man and woman first start seeing each other the rules of acceptance are just beginning to form.
Most of the rules are formed during the interactions between the man and woman.
However, some of the rules are set by assumptions that can cause strife later in the relationship if it is broken even though no one said it was a rule.
The two most common rules are
Marriage MonogamyMany men do not want to get married or maintain a relationship with just one woman, yet, end up doing so because they find a woman they really like and by the time she brings it up you are already heavily invested in the relationship and can’t say NO.
Yet, if once you knew that she was attracted to you instead of just continuing on in the relationship you decided to tell her how you fell about marriage and monogamy; you would discover that her resistance to the ideas would be quite low, not so much because she agrees with you rather because her attraction for you will override all of the other emotions that she will have.
Of course sooner or later she might change her mind and decide that she wants to get married or be in a monogamous relationship, especially if you don’t do the things necessary to maintain attraction.
However it will be much easier to tell her NO because you already told her where you stand on those issues so you wouldn’t be saying No as much as you would be telling her what you already told her from the beginning.
Even better is to simply continue creating a high level of attraction so that you do not even have to worry about her bringing those types of conversations up.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and more. If you would like more information on how to attract, seduce and meet women sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men today.