Thank You for the Music: Why Playing an Instrument Will Get You Girls
By: James Brito
Someone once said, “Any problem you can’t solve with a good guitar, is either unsolvable or isn’t a problem.”
I’d have to agree with that quotation, especially when it comes to girls. When it comes to landing chicks and improving relationships, a guitar is your best friend!
Why? Because women love men with talents–and playing a guitar, even at an amateur level, is definitely a talent. Having a skill is indeed one of the fundamental rules of attraction. The Tao of Steve, a fascinating and entertaining movie, even breaks down how to get women into three simple rules, one of which is “be awesome in her presence.” It includes doing something most guys can’t do, that makes you unique, and that makes you talented. Well, a guitar answers all three requirements!
If you haven’t heard my lesson on the value of playing a guitar, I strongly suggest you check it out. My colleague and relationship expert, Amy Waterman, tells you from a girl’s perspective just why a guitar player–even a bad one–is so sexy and attractive.
Let’s look at some of the many benefits of knowing how to play the guitar in front of women.
1. As I said above, just being able to play a guitar, even if you’re not so good, means you have talent. Girls love talent, so you’re headed in the right direction.
2. If you play the guitar, it gives girls something fun to tell their friends about you. Think how far “He knows how to play the guitar!” goes. Never forget the importance of female validation: if her friend’s approve of you, SHE approves of you. Don’t underestimate this valuable principle.
3. It Makes An Easy Topic of Conversation. Whether you’re just meeting a girl or talking on a date, mentioning your guitar is an awesome topic of converation. It’ll make even the fussiest and most demanding of babes listen to you: the moment you mention that you know how to play the guitar, they’re all ears! If you’re desperate for a topic of conversation, this one is can’t miss.
I should note something of sheer importance, however: mentioning that you play the guitar won’t work unless you talk about it with conviction. If you mention that you play the guitar but sound ashamed of it, or sound too hard like you’re trying to impress the girl, then…well, guess what? You won’t impress the girl! So be careful how you say it.
4. You don’t have to talk as much. This, for me, is one of the biggest benefits (the BIGGEST is next!). Think about the value of a guitar: when you play it, you become the center of attention. You don’t have to talk, people just listen to the music. It also makes an easy break in awkwards periods of silence; just whip out the guitar and the girl will be amazed!
5. A guitar makes you sexy! Yup, it’s a no-brainer here. Girls love guys who play the guitar because it’s really sexy–for every guy! Doesn’t matter how you look, how short or tall you are, how much money you have. When you whip out the guitar, you automatically become a male sex object.
Need proof? I have a friend in London who is BUTT UGLY. Seriously, he looks like a human pig–and smells like one, too! But the moment he whips out his guitar, girls LOVE him. I’m serious: he really gets lots of girls, all because he’s a guitar-playing fiend. The guy is GOOD, so this just goes to prove two things: one, that you can get girls without being handsome, and two, the better you play, the more girls you’ll get.
Don’t worry if you don’t know right now how to play a guitar. You don’t need to know how to play the guitar in order to get women, but as you can see…it really helps! And it makes your dating life easier in the process.
Looking for help? Never played the guitar before? Fortunately, it doesn’t have to be hard. I’m a novice myself, and I put together a free page on how to play the guitar here:
http://www.000relationships.com/learnguitar
There’s even a free mini-course that will teach you the basics and more, so it’s worth checking out. Remember, there’s infinite value in playing a guitar. In the words of one Radiohead song: “Anyone can play guitar and they won’t be a nothin’ anymore.”
James Brito, bestselling author of “How to Be Irresistible to Women” and “The Art of Impressing Women,” regularly explores topics of female attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men around the world build confidence and get the women they deserve. To get his free six-part audio mini-course, visit:
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/
Because it’s YOUR turn!