The Art of Talking About "Nothing"
By: Vittorio Norman
This is not a technique I am showing you. It is just an example taken from my own life which shows the kind of dialogue I sometimes get into. In this particular instance I am chatting with a woman from online. The entire conversation is not shown, just the key parts. Notice how little effort I am putting into the conversation. I’m not trying to be boring, I am just talking without being too interested. But the end result is that she wants to see me.
Her: so tell me something ..
Her: what did you do today?
Me: I went to work
Me: and then I came home
Her: wow..
Her: hehe
* * *
Her: so… what else can you tell me about you?
Her: (I’m interviewing you)
Her: 
Her: don’t be nervous
Me: that’s a tough question
Me: can I get back to you
Her: I don’t like to be in the spot light
Her: what’s your story?
Her: you’re a mystery
Me: I am from another world
Me: lol
Her: hmm
Her: are you trying to be mysterious?
Her: dark and mysterious
* * *
Her: I should get going
Her: I have a lot of free time. If you’re in XX let me know and we can have coffee
Her: I don’t usually chat on line ..
Me: yes, I will contact you the next time I come down
Copyright © 2006 Vittorio Norman
Vittorio Norman provides a step-by-step guide for meeting women online, in his latest ebook. His website is located at http://www.onlinedatestrategy.com