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Things to Do on a First Date

By: Sean Morrissy

If you’re like most guys, you probably have some place that you like to take girls to. Maybe it’s the movies, maybe you insist on taking her out to a nice dinner so she realizes how much you like her. Who knows?

Well, the aim of this newsletter is to get you thinking about some other dates you can go on.

For starters, let’s look at first dates. This can be critical, because this date is all about getting to know each other and ramping up that attraction.
If you’ve paid attention to my eCourse, then ramping up the attraction should be no problem for all you high status guys. So you just have to worry about going somewhere where you can build rapport.

I hope you can see why going to the movies is a bad idea for a first date. Sure, if you’re nervous, it’ll make the time go by easy enough. But that’s not what the date is all about.

And while you may get a chance to get to know each other over dinner, I don’t recommend it for a first date. This is because offering to pay for a woman’s dinner in order for her to see you is like saying “Hey, I know you’re cooler than me, but if I pay for your dinner, then that should sorta even things out”. This is not to say you should never take a woman to dinner, just give it time.

So, onto the places that are fun. A nice easy place for a first date is a café or coffee shop. It’s casual, there’s plenty around and since it’s cheap, who buys isn’t really an issue. It’s fine to buy her coffee as long as you don’t make an issue of it.

Another place I like, that works especially well with fun, outgoing girls, is a video arcade. This works great, because it’s fun and it makes it easy for you to tease her when you kick her ass at a game.

Something else I like to do at the arcade is challenge her to a game of something I’m good at that we can both play together. Air hockey and Daytona work well. I then mention that the loser must pay for ice cream/drink/etc afterwards. I then proceed to kick her ass and get her to pay for whatever. Try it. 

Later dates are easier, because by then you have already developed some rapport. I’ll share with you one tactic I got from a guy named Brett who appeared on a DYD program.

Invite the girl over to watch a DVD with you. Share something to eat and drink and just have a chat. Then suggest you watch the DVD. But Oh no, the DVD player in the living room is broken, looks like we’ll have to use the one in my bedroom….

I’m sure you can figure out what to do after that. ;)

Sean Morrissy runs http://www.WomenMadeEasy.net . A site for men who want to improve their skills with women.

He’s also reviewed a ton of online dating sites and offers free courses too!

Feel free to email Sean questions, via email from the links on the site.

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    Things to Do on a First Date

    By: Svetlana Polyakova

    Your time has come! You have been dreaming for this. Finally, you will be meeting your first date tonight. Now, the question is: what should you do on your first date?

    Below are some tips you should do on your first date:

    Have a nice conversation. Remember, to have a first date means knowing your date better. Therefore, it is very important to have a nice conversation with your date.

    Ice cream is perfect for sunny weather. You can buy your date an ice cream while walking in a part then have a romantic conversation at the beach.

    Never date in your apartment. For a first date, it is a very big turn off especially for a girl if you invite to go to your apartment. This can be very intimidating for both of you because you are still in the process of knowing each other. So as much as possible do something that is in public.

    Look for silent place. Again, to have a first date means know your date better. The best way to achieve this is through talking. Find a silent place so that both of you would understand each other.

    Never look for a dark place. It is very important that on your first date, you have to see each other while talking. Look for place that has lights so both of you would able to see your gestures and expressions.

    Cafes are the best location for a date. Cafes will not only obliged you to pay a lot of many but it is also a cozy and quiet place that is very perfect for both of you.

    Talk about interesting topics. Never talk about topics that would make both of you boring. Never talk about your job because it would definitely bore your date. Interesting topic such as past experiences, family and friends would help your conversation fruitful. You can also talk about your funny experiences or your most embarrassing moments. That would definitely laugh your date.

    Ask a lot of questions. The more questions you would be asking the easier to hold conversations of any topic.

    Listening makes others feel very important. Generally, girls love to talk. So have your full ears in listening because she will feel how important she is. Also, never interrupt when she is talking.

    Never impress your date. The worst thing you can do when talking with a girl is to let her know how rich you are, that you have to Mercedes Benz at home or any topic that would allows you to impress her.

    Plan your date. It is very important to have a plan to have an organize date. Set a date and time as to when you will meet, set a place where would you eat, etc.

    Other places to have a perfect date would be, watching ball games, such NBA, major league baseball, football. Watching concerts and movies would also be good options.

    Lastly, enjoy life and have fun. Dating is a challenge but understand you might have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince or princess.

    Virginia Beauty and Fashion consultant, Svetlana Polyakova from SecretstoImpress.com specializes in teaching men and women the fine techniques of how to meet to meet that special person, dress to impress, and beauty & Fashion tips and etiquette.

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