Tired Of Running Around In Circles Looking For Love - Some Words Of Wisdom From A Wise Old Dog!
By: Christine Akiteng
A fable about a young pup and a very old dog conveys a lesson worth remembering.
Every day the pup chased his tail frantically while the old dog watched with lazy amusement. The pup wanted the old dog to be his friend but the wise old dog just told him to come back when he knew who he was and what he wanted. The pup continued to spend so much time and energy chasing his own tail that sometimes he’d collapse in desperation. Sometimes he even lost his way home and feared that he might spend the rest of his life chasing this thing that he wanted so much.
Several years later the weary dog turned to his mentor for help. “I can’t stand it any more! Every time I think I finally have it, I lose it and have to run faster!” he complained.
The older dog smiled. “I have watched you run in circles for a long time. I knew you were getting weaker and losing your spirit, but until you were ready to slow down and look at yourself, there was no use in saying anything!” Then the old wise dog took the younger dog’s tail gently in his teeth and said “Is this what you are looking for?”
The younger dog gasped. “How did you know that? It feels like mine!”
“It was yours all the time!” the older dog said. But the more you chased after it, the more you got lost and tired and preoccupied. Go home now and rest. Tomorrow you will begin to know what is you and what isn’t. Then we can be friends.”
If you are reading this, you may by now have come to the realizations that you haven’t found what you are looking for because you think that love is something you must look for, and for the last several months and even years you’ve been running around in circles. Deep inside, in your unconscious mind you began to fear that you will never really have love in your life. But what you may not know is that your fear of has set up a vibration of desperation, of needing or lacking love in your life and that is why love seems so elusive. You are attracted and attract people who do not reciprocate your feelings and end up longing, pining and clinging for love. You may have become a magnet for all kinds of situations, outcomes and people who are vibrating on the wavelengths that bring you more rejection, self-pity, depression, sadness, hopelessness, more pining and more clinging.
If you are so focused on looking for love, your quest for true love and a mutually supportive loving and caring partner will continue to be an elusive one. If you are working so hard to find someone to love you then there’s something missing that you need to connect with first. Realize that nobody can give you love because love is already in you.
It’s true what my people say: there is nothing like the desire for a mature soulful sexual partnership to awaken in us the desire to understand the fullness of ourselves, to reconcile the conflicts, to heal the emotional wounds, to adjust and eventually to blend our sexual nature with the other parts of our lives. This is how the universe gets our attention. This is how our soul gets our attention. This is how LOVE gets our attention.
The voice of your inner guide encourages you to practice seeing past appearances, past the judgments you project on others to seeing that invisible part of another being that is in so many ways just an invisible part of yourself - wounded, fragmented vulnerable and under the eye of truth and blatant honesty. It consciously guides you to seek the experience of giving love to this reflection of yourself and when this translates into a relationship, a miracle unfolds!.
About the Author: Christine Akiteng, Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of ebook: The Art Of Seducing Out Of Fullness™ is internationally renowned for her UNIQUE and genuinely insightful outlook to what love is really about, what is there to learn about who we really are and what we can expect from our sexual relations. Her very powerful and practical “Fullness Approach™” to dating and relationships and strong emphasis on “you don’t need to attract many men/Women, just the RIGHT ONE” has helped many single men and women develop greater capacity to attract the RIGHT man or woman and create fulfilling relationships…
Christine’s websites: http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com and http://www.theartofseducingoutoffullness.com