Top 5 Mistakes When Attracting Your Perfect Life Partner
By: Sasha LeBaron
Lets face it if finding your perfect life partner was easy everyone would have done it. That being said, it is by no means out of the range of possible for anyone who is sufficiently motivated. Today we are going to look at some of the most serious mistakes you might be making when attracting or as I prefer, manifesting, you perfect life partner.
Mistake 1.
Trying too hard
This is a “no brainer” but you wouldn’t believe how many questions I get from people struggling with this simple concepts of attraction. The key here is to relax. The more relaxed you are the deeper you will breathe and the more energy you will have and from those two actions the more charisma you will have. So for example, if you are fond of the library and you feel this would be a likely place to meet your soulmate; go volunteer there!
Your being there on a regular basis will create comfort for you, allowing you to relax and from this relaxed place you will naturally become 100% more magnetic to your future life partner. Who knows he or she may be volunteering there right now!
Mistake 2.
Not being patient
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
~ Chinese Proverb
Who ever came up with this was on the right track! Also “Good things come to those who wait.” and other such sayings are all pointing at the same thing; patience. So when you are on the “hunt” what do you radiate? That’s right! Impatience. Maybe even… desperation? And nothing will make you miss those “chance” encounters faster than being in a hurry or being desperate, in your life or in your quest for the perfect life partner.
So when you have set the wheels in motion to magnetizing your perfect life partner, give your self room to breathe! You wouldn’t rush a fine wine would you? Or a Rembrandt painting? No, you would allow the forces of the universe to work in the way they are supposed to and you would be patient. Your relationship with your perfect life partner is as important as any fine vintage or masterpiece of art so don’t rush it!
Mistake 3.
Keeping your “blinders” on
In the old days of horse and buggies in the city the horses would be fitted with flaps beside their eyes so they wouldn’t be spooked by things happening “out of the corner of their eye” these flaps were called blinders. Humans have them too, only they are in your head and sometimes around your heart.
There you are in a place you have been “a thousand times before” your potential perfect life partner is standing right next to you and you are so “caught up” in doing your important business that you don’t even notice him or her!
Can you imagine how painful this would be if you were “that close” and you let your perfect partner slip away because you had your blinders on? So keep your eyes wide open! Look at each person you interact with, in the eyes! Not only will you get a better sense of who they are, but people will like you more too! And when you feel that click… you won’t be too busy to notice!
Mistake 4.
Looking a gift horse in the mouth
This one has actually happened to me. Your friends know you are “looking” and they set you up, but being stubborn you decide ahead of time that its not going to work or that you won’t like the person. Result? Even if they were a potential perfect life partner for you your mental outlook has doomed you to failure before you even meet them!
The next time someone invites you to a friends place to meet “someone who would be perfect for you” be grateful! This is the abundance of the universe flowing your way! Be open to it. Welcome it. And if there is a connection, go for it!
Mistake 5.
Failing to look out for number one
I have saved the biggest one for last because I want you to remember it. Not taking care of yourself - by that I mean truly caring about yourself, loving yourself and accepting yourself, blemished and all - is the single biggest reason people fail to attract the perfect life partner of their dreams.
But there is hope! When you look inside and come to terms with your “rough edges” and truly love yourself you begin to literally radiate confidence, passion, joy and power. This is the ultimate aphrodisiac love potion that you could find anywhere in the world! Do what ever you need to do to clear out your “baggage” be it therapy, coaching or even lots of exercise and meditation. When you clean house in this way and truly care about yourself this is when your magnetic power of attraction kicks in and from there is is only a matter of a short time till you meet, connect and join with your perfect life partner.
We have all met people who are physically unattractive, handicapped or otherwise challenged and yet in spite of these drawbacks they have fantastic personalities, great friends and loving relationships. Why? Because they have done the work and they look out for number one. In many cases that one simple fact may have literally saved their life. So as soon as you finish reading this, take some action. Book a treatment, a massage, a long walk in the forest, anything as long as it is for YOU and will nurture and grow your love for your totally unique and special self!
Sasha LeBaron is the author of two books and many articles on the specific techniques and tools of finding your perfect life partner. He lives on the gulf islands of BC, Canada with his perfect life partner and a large fluffy cat. Learn how you can find YOUR perfect life partner in as little as ten minutes per day at http://www.FindYourPerfectLifePartner.com/