Top 5 Reasons: Why a Woman Would Break Up with YOU
By: Donovan Cruise
I’ve often thought about the topic of why women leave men. Especially when the woman seems happy, and the guy is such a ‘nice’ guy. I have recently come to the realization of why women leave men. And I’m going to share it with you, so you can prevent it.
The main all-encompassing principle is that the male stops being attractive. Let’s get into some specific examples from the most common reason to the least.
Big Number 1. Clingy
The man is too obsessive. He hangs around her to much, and seeks her attention CONSTANTLY. This is a huge negative, especially for a woman that has so much offer, usually she has a life. She needs space, she also needs companionship. Make sure you supply that, and give her her independence.
Close Number 2. Approval Seeking
You’re doing those things that you know you shouldn’t. Like: What do you want to do tonight hunny? or I really wanted to see that movie, but I guess we can see yours… This is prime wussy behavior. STOP IT. Beautiful, interesting women will not tolerate this behavior for very long. I guarantee in 98% of situations you didn’t start out that way. The David Deangelo range of materials actually talks in-depth about this topic. It was interesting to find out the ways I was ruining my chances in more ways than one which I wasn’t even aware of.
Further down 3. Jealously
Don’t ever be jealous. If she’s with you, she’s with YOU. You would hope she is constantly being flirted with around you. She’s obviously hot, good job! Control that emotion and funnel it into humor, by occasionally ‘negging’ (slight self-esteem hit) her. Say something after a man says, “You’re so lucky to be with a woman that great…”, reply by saying something like, “I know, imagine how much she had to work to get me!”
Almost to the end 4: Boring and Predictable
So many guys are boring and predictable. Don’t answer you’re phone 1 out of 10 times, just to have her think more about you. (It works on us doesn’t it guys?) Do stuff spontaneously with her, that’s interesting and unpredictable, like go snowboarding if you’ve never been, or skydive one day, or if you never dress up and go to an expensive restaurant - do that!
Mix and match it up so it’s interesting for both of you. Also, be different in personality, be nice some times, be a little mean other times but respectful. Try being really busy and not clingy if you’re always available for her. DYD talks extensively about this.
The final 5: Not doing what worked.
In the beginning you got her! What did you do? How did you act around her? Forget what relationship books say, do what worked! Remember the old saying, “If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’re going to keep getting what you’ve always gotten!” That works for good results as well. So keep it up! Don’t call her back in a second if that’s not what you did originally.
Ok, you get the point of this post. I’m passionate about these things, because I know they MATTER. They really EFFECT how a relationship works.
Women have a HUGE amount of options, don’t give her the chance to consider them when she’s already got the best one.
You need a lot more information about dating, and attracting the type of woman you want! Donovan has setup a blog called The Attraction Chronicles, it has loads of free articles helping men achieve dramatic success with women.