Top Ways Guys Destroy Trust With Women Online
By: Teddy Shabba
If you don’t know it by now, then it is time that you learned that real sane and healthy women will not meet you offline if they don’t trust you online.
It amazes me how many men still don’t get that trying to attract women online when they don’t trust you is pointless.
Some of the biggest mistakes men make could easily be avoided just by not doing them whereas others could be avoided if men took the time to read their emails and think what would my email sound like to someone who doesn’t know what is going on inside of your head, before you send it to women.
Below I will go over some of the more common mistakes that men make when trying to gain trust with women;
Being Overly Sexual- Your first email should never be about sex or the second or any other email for that matter.
If a woman initiates sexual talk tell her you can discuss it over drinks or on the phone and then do your best to her offline.
Some women will have cyber or phone sex with anybody because in the end you are just playing with yourself.
Unless you enjoy playing with yourself more than the real thing no sex talk till you meet in person.
Insulting Women- if you have something bad to say in general keep it to yourself and if you are simply trying to be funny, online it rarely works because those types of jokes are funny when you can hear how they say it.
Without that on paper it just looks like an insult so avoid insulting or making fun of women in your emails and profile.
Being Bitter About Your Past Relationships- The only time being bitter might work is with a drunken chick that also happens to be bitter.
Considering online you are free to be whoever you want to be I really doubt there are that many girls that are drunk online.
If you really need to express your bitterness on paper then write it down and go to open mike it will be much better for you.
Online remember to keep upbeat and positive in order to build a woman’s trust.
Pictures With No Smiles- In school and with friends its okay to have that serious look on your face in pictures because everybody knows it’s the furthest from the truth.
Online however it comes across as anti-social and not too many women are into that online.
Bottom line is women online have to treat potential men online with a bit of caution for safety reasons.
When you throw caution to the wind in your emails and profile it doesn’t excite her it scares her.
So be nice, but not in a way that will be perceived as a Nice Ordinary Type just the trustworthy type.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and more. If you would like more information on how to attract, seduce and meet women sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men today.